Development Talk

Why are our children violent?

 

November 17, 2010

Children need to be loved and protected from violence to stop them from becoming perpetrators of violence themselves. Photo: Thetravellinged via Flickr

Children need to be loved and protected from violence to stop them from becoming perpetrators of violence themselves. Photo: Thetravellinged via Flickr

South Africa was recently shocked by the gang-rape of a school girl by three of her fellow pupils. The girl was drugged and raped while other pupils watched and filmed it on their cellphones. Why are some children in South Africa so violent and what can be done about it?

Some people have spoken about a “culture of violence” in South Africa, but implying that violence is inherently South African is not helpful. The cause of the problem needs to be found and addressed.

South Africa is not the only country that struggles with violent and dysfunctional youth. Safe Families Safe Children, an international group of renowned child rights organisations, including ACER Brasil, The International Children’s Trust, JUCONI Ecuador, JUCONI Mexico, New Life (South Africa) and Railway Children (UK, India and East Africa) “promote access for highly excluded children from violent homes around the world to the support and services they require to recover from their traumatic life experiences and gain sustainable access to their rights”.

In this organisation’s “Manifesto of Change” they site the Adverse Childhood Experiences Study which “found a clear link between the adverse experiences in childhood (including physical, emotional or sexual abuse and living in households with domestic violence) and a range of physical, emotional and social problems, including: heart disease, obesity, depression, alcoholism, sexual promiscuity, substance abuse, teenage pregnancy, rape and poor job performance”. (more…)

Panelists discuss challenges facing youth at NGO Week. Photo: Development Works

Panelists discuss challenges facing youth at NGO Week. Photo: Development Works

Young people are facing many challenges in today’s society. In some cases, especially where unemployment is concerned, these challenges are so great that they cannot take active part in and contribute to their families and the community at large.

More than 30 people, from various organisations, gathered at Salt River Community Hall on 22 September, during the South African National NGO Coalition‘s NGO Week, to find innovative solutions to issues concerning youth. (more…)

Scientists at UWC are researching a male contraceptive. Photo: NIOSH via Flickr

Scientists at UWC are researching a male contraceptive. Photo: NIOSH via Flickr

Teenage pregnancy is one of the major problems faced by today’s youth. Girls fall pregnant at a very young age and are often left to deal with the consequences themselves, abandoned by the father and their family.

Some cannot see themselves as single mothers and give their children up for adoption or have abortions. In the worst and saddest of these cases, as was reported on the front page of The Times newspaper on 20 July 2010, mothers simply dump their babies.

Taking responsibility

Women often get the blame for these unwanted babies. People ask why they did not use contraceptive pills.  But men must also take responsibility. Not only are condoms freely available in clinics across South Africa, but the  University of the Western Cape’s (UWC) scientists, together with colleagues at the University of Missouri in America are now also conducting research on a male contraceptive pill, made from a plant extract.

According to the Cape Times, a molecule found in two varieties of olive trees and cloves, has been tested on males of three animal species including mice, rabbits and rats and was found to have a contraceptive effect.

 
It is indicated that the results were immediate and reversible. It took a couple of months for fertility to return after the molecule was taken away.

This molecule also has some anti-cancer, anti-HIV, anti-ulcer and anti-microbial effects.

However, Cape Times states that the scientists will not be able to test the molecule on humans until they find out how its contraceptive quality actually works.   

A trip to a library changed the life Fezile Cokile.

A trip to a library changed the life Fezile Cokile. Photo: CCAC North Library via Flickr

Many people believe that their background has an impact on who they will become in life. Young people (especially those born and bred in the rural areas) sometimes feel that their current situation will keep them from reaching their goals. But one 19 year old has shown that you can rise above your circumstances, with a little help from a good book.

Fezikile Cokile grew up in Mdantsane township in the Eastern Cape. A lack of resources is the main challenge that faces youth living in areas such as these. Computers are pictures that are only seen in magazines. Children are taught that a “library is a place where books are kept,” but the chances of setting foot in one are very slim.

But some people, like Cokile, work even harder in these circumstances and do not blame their backrounds for not acheiving their goal in life.

The day Cokile entered the library doors, was the day in his life that he will never forget.

What happened at the library ?

Books open up a new world to young readers. Photo: Horia Varlan

Books open up a new world to young readers. Photo: Horia Varlan via Flickr

There were never any books at Cokile’s home and according to The Times, his first visit to a library happened at the age of 13.  This visit gave him the inspiration to have his first book published at the age of 19.

A copy of Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone, which he found in the children’s section of the library, made him fall in love with writing, with English and with the author, JK Rowling.  He is quoted saying:  “I love that woman. I read her book and loved it, and I think that is what sparked my interest in writing.”

Cokile carried his dream quietly in his heart until he reached grade 9 at Mdantsane’s Nyameko High school.

The Times states that, two years after he found the publisher’s address on the tittle page of a library book, he wrote his first novel, Stolen Moments. This was followed by another manuscript, Dusty Life, last year.  Both were unfortunately rejected.

But, as the expression in isiXhosa goes : “Umntu uvuna obekulimile” (Meaning “A person harvests what he/she has planted”), Cokile’s hard work eventually paid off.

How did he rise above rejection?

Now Fezile Cokile's book can also be found on the shelves of libraries. Photo: Cybrgrl via Flickr

Now Fezile Cokile's book can also be found on the shelves of libraries. Photo: Cybrgrl via Flickr

The fact that his first two novels were not published, didn’t kill him, but made him stronger. He knew he was good at telling stories and he never felt that his dreams of becoming a writer were shattered. That is why he took up his pen again and did what he is passionate about.

His dream became a reality when his book, Wish Upon A Star, eventually made its appearance on the shelves of bookshops.  He is very excited about this and we will probably hear a lot more about this talented young man in the future.

The importance of literacy and reading among youth was the reason for the launch of the Western Cape Education Department Family Literacy Project. Extensive and in-depth research shows that the literacy and numeracy levels of grade three learners are far below what is required of them to learn and develop effectively.

The Family Literacy pilot programme was initiated in 11 Adult Education and Training (AET) centers in the 28 priority areas within the Western Cape. Each center produced a report highlighting the structure of the center and programme, outcomes achieved, challenges and lessons learnt. Creative Consulting & Development Works conducted research to consolidate the information from each AET center. The outcome of this research was a comprehensive consolidated provincial report.

Have you ever read a book that really touched your life? Tell us about it in the comments section below.

A refugee girl in one of the tents used to house people displaced by xenophobic attacks in South Africa in 2008. Photo: Development Works

A refugee girl in one of the tents used to house people displaced by xenophobic attacks in South Africa in 2008. Photo: Development Works

Beautiful! Exquisite! Professional! Captivating! This is what everyone sang after a well-presented musical play by Lawrence House, a refugee children’s home, which forms part of the Scalabrini Centre’s welfare programmes.

The show, commemorating Lawrence House’s 5th anniversary, was entitled “Mad Word” and was advertised by word of mouth. The “mad word” spread and it generated more than a hundred audience members.

While some disturbing incidences of xenophobia have flared up in South Africa after the 2010 FIFA World Cup, and a number of foreign nationals have left their homes in fear, this show displayed the theme of unity and love and emphasised the importance of “a happy family”.

Formed in 2005, Lawrence House is dedicated specifically to the care of abandoned and unaccompanied refugee minors. Its motto is the Bible verse “I was a stranger and you accepted me”. The House and its separate teenager cottage can accommodate up to 30 children. Boys and girls between the ages of 6 and 18 are taken in. Currently the House shelters children from Angola, DRC, Rwanda and Zimbabwe.

We at Creative Consulting & Development Works are firm believers in equal rights and observing the Constitution of South Africa, that is why we have also worked with the NGO for refugees, Adonis Musati Project.

If children from different walks of life can come together and use their talents to put on such a wonderful show, why can’t we as adults bury our differences and work together as well?

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